Oklahoma City Moms! Here’s How to Capture Stress-Free Photos of Your Toddler
Why is it that our kids do the cutest, funniest things … until we pull out the camera?
Remember those days when taking a photo meant everyone standing stiffly and saying ‘cheese’? Well, say goodbye to that!
The BEST photos are those filled with genuine smiles and laughter, especially when toddlers are involved.
If the thought of getting your little one to cooperate for a family or newborn photo session sends you into a panic,
don’t worry. I’m here with some tried and true tricks to make photo time fun for everyone, even if you’re just using your cell phone!
Engage The Toddler
Play Their Favorite Tunes: Music works like magic. Play your toddler’s favorite songs and watch them light up. Dance, sing, and be silly together. It’s a great way to capture natural smiles and laughter. We do this in the studio all the time! Don’t ask me how many times I’ve listened to “Baby Shark!”
Incorporate Their Favorite Toy: Bring along their favorite toy or stuffed animal. It can be a comfort item and also a great prop for candid shots.
Use Funny Faces and Sounds:
Never underestimate the power of a funny face or a silly sound.
Peek-a-boo, funny animal noises, or even a playful ‘I’m going to get you’ can lead to adorable expressions.
Tantrum? Do something they recognize:
Sometimes if you sing a song they love or ask them to say their ABCs it changes their mood really quickly.
You can also hand them a piece of clear tape to get them to sit, at least for a moment!
Take Breaks:
Toddlers have short attention spans. Don’t push for continuous shooting.
Take breaks, let them play, and then come back for more snaps.
Use prompts:
I have a handful of silly prompts or questions to ask toddlers that can get real smiles and fun candid shots!
Try some of these:
– Do you know who lives in my camera? Spiderman! Look really close – can you see him?
He jumps out when I take a photo! *Snaps photo* Did you see him??? (This only works with a “real” camera not usually a phone, but worth a try either way!)
– *Point to your ear* Is this my nose? This is my nose, right? This is how I smell flowers? *Stick a pretend flower up to your ear* Mmmmm smells good! – Let’s play a game of “who can laugh the loudest?” Ready 1-2-3 laugh!! (Pro tip – the REAL laugh will come a few seconds after the loud laugh)- Does a cat say “woof woof??” A cat goes “woof woof” right?? No?? Are you sure? I’m pretty sure a cat says “woof woof!” How about a cow? What does a cow say? “Meowwwww?”
– Ask them to tell mommy or their sibling their favorite (animal, toy, tv show, etc). They might not laugh but it’ll get cute “whispering” shots and you might get a giggle or two!





How YOU can help your toddler take more genuine photos and have more fun!
Lower expectations: Whether your photo session is an impromptu one with your phone or you’re hiring a photographer,
the best way to be pleasantly surprised is to lower your expectations.
We run on the kiddos time at a session.
They are naturally curious and full of energy, which means they may not always cooperate with our vision.
Instead of aiming for perfect poses, embrace the candid and unscripted moments!
These unfiltered shots often turn out to be the most authentic and heartwarming –
and you get to see more of your child’s personality!
Don’t Stress: Toddlers are incredibly perceptive, and they can pick up on your anxiety.
If you’re relaxed and happy, they’re more likely to be the same!
When you’re having fun together, those genuine smiles and expressions will
naturally emerge, resulting in photos that truly reflect the joy of the moment.
Whether you’re headed to a professional photoshoot or you’re taking photos at home
with your cell phone, the key to capturing those priceless, spontaneous
moments with your little ones isn’t about the perfect pose or smile.
It’s about using some tricks to get real laughs & candid moments and have fun with it!
Those are the moments we cherish as parents, right?